Musings of a teacher. She recalls her lectures, her students and college days. She describes and analyses books. She comments on important happenings and trends. Occasionally she writes stories as well as personal memories.
Friday, May 24, 2024
The underbelly
Sunday, May 19, 2024
Letting go!
Subtracting
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Unending flow of people in our cities, roads
full, more roads, asphalting and widening of roads, footpaths, traffic signals
and policemen, flyovers – two/three storey high! – train and metro service,
hyperloop, public and private transport jostling together,
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Traffic signals on main roads driving traffic
in by lanes,
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Serene hill stations and picnic spots ruined
by overcrowding,
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New luxury homes resembling museums because
they are so full of beautiful objects.
There is ever more of everything.
Add! Add! Add! Make things more complicated! Addition is
rampant, mindless. This is the modern life style.
Dr. Laurence
Peter of Peter principle fame gave an example of this trend taken to its
extreme. He wrote of a hydraulic butter box inside a huge refrigerator for
keeping butter warm, hailed as a major improvement when all that is required is
to take out the butter first thing in the morning. At room temperature, it
easily spreads on toast and bread.
We all of us have
a basic instinct to add and to hoard. It is easy to visualize additions. Plus,
there is our tendency for loss aversion. Losing what we have affects us much
more than gaining something new. So, we keep merrily increasing our pile of
worldly goods.
How about moving
in the reverse direction? Deduct. Delete. Edit. Parse. Simplify. Minimize.
Declutter. Forget. Withdraw. Disengage.
Difficult to
visualize and takes the same effort as addition. May be more. But it is a way
of thinking which yields beautiful results: space, emptiness, freedom and
spiritual awakening. Less is indeed more.
Kurt Lewin (1890 –
1947) has talked of driving and restraining forces leading to an equilibrium or
‘freeze’ in his field theory of human behaviour. Loss of equilibrium leads to
tension till refreezing takes place. The obvious way is to add to the driving
forces for this purpose but reducing restraining forces works even better.
A lady was
visiting her parental house. She saw that both her brother and his wife were
continuously exhorting their teenage son who was due to appear for the 12 standard
and competitive examinations to work harder. The lady remembered her own
Physics textbook when she had appeared for the examination decades ago. It was
her favourite book because it had very good examples, explanation, a witty
style and a logical flow of ideas. She searched for it, found it and offered it
to the boy. He did not want to look at it at first as he did not have time.
Soon however, he was hooked. She could feel an almost visual lessening of the
tension he was labouring under. He applied himself to his studies with renewed
zeal and went on to crack, not the board but JEE Main examination.
Everyone has
heard the adage: The whole is greater than the sum of its parts. It is
attributed to Kurt Koffka (1886 – 1941), a psychologist who also, like Lewin,
belonged to the Gestalt school of psychology. What Koffka had actually said was
that the whole was something else than the sum of its parts. He
clarified repeatedly that he was not talking of a principle of addition as
the whole could be less than the sum of its parts. But our common
fondness for addition has resulted into the misinterpretation passing into
received wisdom today.
Thus, subtraction
does not come naturally to us. Whenever it has been done consciously, it yields
great results. Urban planners and architects, political scientists (NOTA option in voting) and self-help
gurus like Marie Kondo will all agree.
(Musings based on
the reading of Subtract, the untapped science of less by Leidy Klotz,
Flatiron Books, N.Y. 2021)
Tuesday, May 7, 2024
Moving house
After nearly 29 years, shifting to a new house was a major job.
Actually the old house was ideal: compact with a spectacular view of surroundings from the terrace and the kitchen window. These made up for the isolation of the house. Its terrace was facing West. I have found that the wind always blows from the West. So just sitting on the terrace every evening, taking in the breeze and drinking the vistas were an important part of everyday routine. Every tile, every bit of the walls in the house had become a part of me. And leave it all behind?
Well, reasons both within and without made the move necessary. Older residents had left one by one and the society had been hollowed out. Others were talking of redevelopment which would have necessitated a move anyway. So why not move on my own, at my convenience?
Outer factors included the 24 by 7 traffic. 11/13/17/26 storey tall towers are in demand and small, cozy societies are a matter of the past. Distant interpersonal relations have become the norm. And there is no going back. So I must make mental adjustments to be with the times and that is better done now rather than sometime later.
Thus I decided to look for a new house. In the same locality. Going somewhere else with everything different would have been too much to take. I spent unquiet, anxious moments to reach this decision. I also realized that I required help in both reaching a decision and then executing it. I asked family members just once and good advice and all the practical help just poured in.
House hunting began in real earnest and then in order not to lose the momentum, we decided to act and a flat for resale was booked. For the same reason, shifting also began soon.
For me, it meant bringing down all the stuff in the lofts of the old house, sort it out and then discard it or pack it in cardboard boxes. Believe me, for one month, I was doing the job. A reverse and easier process had to be carried out at the new house.
So much of our old stuff was useless or redundant. It was out of sight and so was forgotten year after year. I hesitated before discarding things. Soon however, it became a familiar matter and I gaily gave up books, greeting cards, buckets, shoes, files and diaries, mattresses, clothes, woolens, glass and plastic bottles, utensils, earthen lamps et al.
The new house became familiar and started feeling like home after paintings and framed art works were put up on the walls. It took a few days to remember the places of things in the kitchen - my own arrangement but still!
At last, now a routine has developed and memories of the old house are receding.
I lost 2 kgs. of body weight in the process!
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